Gene’s Journey: Finding My Way Home
A Story of Resilience and Community
Meet Gene, a 67-year-old gay man whose journey of resilience and connection is inspiring. Since relocating to Portland in late 2020, Gene has overcome numerous challenges, including living with HIV since 1998. With the support of his family—three children and ten grandchildren—he shares his story with warmth and gratitude.
The Power of Support
Gene reflects on his experience with stigma surrounding HIV, noting how it often discourages people from seeking treatment. Overcoming stigma around HIV is just one of the many reasons Gene chooses to support CAP.
When a back injury forced him into early retirement, Gene sought a fresh start near his son and ex-wife, who is now his best friend. He candidly admits that managing his finances has been tough, but the move to Portland offered him community. Despite his challenges, Gene considers himself fortunate to have been diagnosed early and to have access to great healthcare through Prism Health.
Transformative Connections
Discovering Cascade AIDS Project and its support services marked a turning point for Gene. He recalls his first meeting with Patty Finch, a CAP staff member, who made him feel valued and capable. “Patty is an AMAZING person! She helped me explore my options for housing, work and more,” he says with gratitude.
Gene also gets quality healthcare through Prism Health, which provides primary healthcare to Portland's 2SLGBTQ+ community at two locations. “Dr. Sokoloff listens to me and makes me feel important. Every visit feels like home,” he shares, reminiscent of the welcoming feel of Cheers.
CAP, where everyone knows your name.
Giving Back to the Community
Initially shy, Gene now actively participates in several CAP programs as a volunteer and community leader. He helps distribute food at Esther's Pantry, volunteers at the CAP Art Auction, and serves on the Ambassador Council. “I’ve made lifelong friends through my involvement,” he smiles.
Despite his self-doubt, Gene persevered and found joy in participating in the Aging Well program. He encourages others facing similar fears to take the leap. “CAP has provided me with a sense of belonging and purpose,” he states. “When I’m at CAP, I feel at home.”